Here the the best tricks and examples which will help you talk dirty to a woman and turn her on. You can use it to talk dirty over text or while making out.
Most men think about talking dirty but are never able to do it because they think they might come off as aggressive or a creep and they would be right to think so but then again let me ask you one thing what is it that you are willing to give in order to have a great love and sexual life? And if the answer is anything then dirty talking is just thing that helps you get closer to your goal. I know that most girls you like are prude or so you think but let me in on you a little secret “Everyone including girl like to talk dirty, all you have to do is find a way to do it” and good news for you is that I am here to help you out to talk dirty to a woman.
Before starting telling you the entire process and take you step by step how to talk dirty to a girl I would like to show you an example on how well talking dirty works sometimes.
Well, this scenario works for everyone even if you both just met or you have been friends for a while just not a platonic one.
We were in a club and sitting next to each other and then she saw me and our eyes locked and then she started looking away, just anywhere in the room but at me which was a clear sign of attraction because if were creeping her out she would have walked away which she didn’t do. Then we started talking about something which wasn’t even important as what was going in the background like exchanging gazes in between and watching her smile when she caught me staring at her lower lips letting her know what I was thinking which made her nervous as she her palms began sweating and pupils expand and she started looking down.
Then suddenly I took a strand of hair placing it on the back of her ear and then slowly slid my hand on the side of her neck and slowly pulling her towards me as in wanting to kiss her and just at last minute turned towards her ear and whispered “If we were alone right now, I would have put you against a wall, pulled your hair back and kissed you all over the neck while you rip my clothes off” as soon as I finished I saw her jaw drop a little and her crossing her legs as in trying to control not giving and then I grabbed her hand and gestured at the door and she didn’t stop me. And the rest you know, but my point is that all this because the guy in the scenario was not afraid to say what he wanted and it worked for him just as it would work for you if you just follow the process properly.
Be Confident
Being confident is the first step to talk dirty to a woman without looking creepy. Here are some ways you can appear confident and avoid making the mistakes that would make you come off as anything other than confident.
- Never just start talking dirty or sexual out of the blue because than you appear as overly aggressive and a little bit of pervert and hence you are automatically thrown in “Not Interested” pile without even proper consideration and that is just because you didn’t warm up to the dirty talk. So, start with a normal topic and then from there go in sexy talking.
- Secondly, you need to listen what she is saying because sometimes we are so nervous or so self absorbed that we don’t even bother listening to the girl and in the end when we start talking dirty we come off as insensitive prick which is far from confident sexy man.
- Lastly, never send out the brotherly or even friendly vibe to a girl you like because then when you start dirty talking it appears creepy. You should always be in the mood of dirty talking and even send out the proper vibes with your body language and in everything that you do so it is not that big shock that you said something dirty.
In short what I am saying is that be ready to talk mild dirty on the go because then you send out all the proper signals and your intentions are clearly of sexual or romantic nature and not of a platonic friendly one which can help you down the line if you ever work up the courage and get confident enough to go for it.
Mild dirty talking
Dirty talking process is like climbing a ladder; you can’t just get on the top without stepping on few of the steps before. So, in order to start talking dirty with a girl you need to lay the ground word which is to say that you have to drop a few hints from the beginning using mild dirty talking like using a sexual puns or double meaning phrases anything that will get her thinking about sex or making out or even being with you. You can do that anytime no matter what you are talking about using phrases like “I like it dirty”, “I like it on the top, if you know what I mean” and when you do that and if she heard and understood what you said there is going to be a shy or sexy smile on her face to which you can act innocent and say “Your mind always goes in the wrong direction, doesn’t it?” and if she is shocked by this then say “Don’t worry mine goes too”. So, now you have established that you both think dirty and like it as well.
Physical Touch
Never underestimate the power of touching because after all you are doing by dirty talking is trying to seduce a girl in which physical touch is your best weapon if done the right way. A proper touch is the one which she doesn’t even notice you doing it but eventually she gets addicted to it. Start this with small things like playfully touching her on the arms while you crack some jokes and you are both laughing and take it from there. But remember never to go too far before she is ready and never go for the groping without testing the waters like holding hands in public and only after you have been with her intimately.
Intentional Hints
Intentional hints are the part of seduction when you have been dating her for some time and have made out with her at least once. This is the part where dirty talking can be of maximum use because you can suggest doing things in a dirty way but covered with humor so she can laugh about it while thinking. You see when you have been on the couple of dates and have made out with the girl and even if you are thinking of going for the long haul you still need to pass one big threshold of doing the deed so rather than feeling nervous about it and shying away from the topic you can make it fun and enjoy the dirty talk and see how it helps you to seduce her and turns her on.
This can take place anywhere as you both are comfortable and trusting with each other like when you both were talking about something, anything and then you just grab her arm and then lean towards her ear and whisper “Sophie, if we were alone right now, I’d be kissing you all over the neck and then slowly slide my hand to your hips and pull you closer to me and…” and then slide away from her and focus on her eyes and then smile and look away and you can suggest going someplace private or if that doesn’t seem favorable the take a leave for a nightcap or something like that and sometimes if you are lucky you won’t even have to suggest, she would take you by your hand herself.
Sneak Attacks
Sneak attacks are the things that can work for you like the most famous and ever working “No sex line” it almost always works because it intrigues the woman about their insecurities and that is enough when you are the one who is assuring them that there is nothing wrong with them. These are different for different girls and only the person who spend time with these girls know about them like some girls are turned on when ticked and some by a nice foot rub, you know these are the things which can help you to sneak up on her and seduce her in a way that only you can.
Go All Out
Going all out and working all stops is the thing you do when you are so comfortable with each other in and out of bed. Till now all you did was got the girl all worked up and made her horny that now all she can think about is you and the things she wants to do to you and she is just inches away from ripping your clothes off and you from her. And then you touch her on the neck and kiss her (Tongue involved) and then you slowly slide your lips to her neck while kissing and then slowly start removing her clothes and you know the rest. So, you know when you are comfortable on this level you can start by letting her know how good it feels to be inside her and say things like “You feel so good, baby” and always remember to listen what she is saying and make her moan just for the sake of your confidence and perhaps she says something which you can use later while talking or texting.
Talk dirty to a woman over text
Texting is a way to say that you can use any way of chatting whether it is texting or social networking anything that works for you. Using the latest technology you can do almost anything including the things I mentioned above in the steps be confident, mild dirty, sexting, sneak attacks and the works can happen in text as well. But no matter how good the texting is it always remember to meet the person to get that physical touch because nothing works better than that. You can use texting or shall I say sexting as a way of seduction even using your personal pictures which I strongly advise against but if you are comfortable with then go for it. Just don’t get too needy and try to make physical contact as much as possible.
Using the tricks correctly to talk dirty to a woman can be a very powerful seduction technique which is not used by everyone but it is very effective and if you can master it then you see the things it can do for you in and out of bed and the secret behind its success is keep them guessing and always leave them wanting more. So, just use is wisely or who am I kidding use it the way you want.