Find the best way to make a man addicted to you forever. Use these tips in person and over text to get him attached and addicted emotionally as well as in bed.
Wondering how to keep your boyfriend interested in you then you are in the right place. When it comes to guy’s they get easily bored and so it’s best to keep him addicted to you. I know it sounds a bit wrong but it’s not. When a guy likes you it’s not just your face or any one thing in particular, it’s everything from how you walk, how you talk and yes to how good you are in bed.
But after a while these things become a routine and bore him and you as well even if you don’t want to accept it. So if you are wondering how to avoid becoming a boring couple and want to keep things interesting then here is how you can do it. And for your information that is what to do to make a man addicted to you, sounds good now, doesn’t it? So just give it a chance and you will be amazed on how much it works.
Be a Mystery
Have you ever told you whole life story on your first date? No! Why not? For that same reason you need to be a mystery. Don’t just tell him everything you feel hold back a little and let him work for it. This way he will get invested a little bit more every day. And this also makes him open up about some of his secrets to get to know yours. Being a mystery does not mean that you shouldn’t talk to each other at all. You should just know when to stop and make him work for it. Creating a mystery for him is good way to make a man addicted to you forever.
Give him Space
It’s always better to give him some space so that he doesn’t feel trapped all the time. Doing this you show him that you are okay leaving alone for a while. This also gives him an opportunity to miss you a little. Giving him space also works well for you as this way you get to spend some time with your friends. Also, you can use this on your hobbies whichever you like. And lastly it makes him appreciate you more.
Try new Things
Trying new things makes everything seems a little bit more interesting. You can start from watching a different kind of movie like scary movie to having different kind of food like Indian or Sushi and stuff. Another place where you can try new things is bedroom which makes it fun to be in a relationship with you. This also keeps the passion alive and will make a man addicted to you in bed. Boredom and routine are the enemies of relationship, so keep trying to make things interesting.
Some people even go hiking at times which is a lot more fun and if you feel like it then sky diving or scuba diving. This trying of new things makes your lives interesting and that’s what makes him addicted to you because no one wants to leave a good relationship.
Be a Flirt
Just because you two are comfortable with each other does not mean you should stop flirting with each other. Flirting is good it’s like meditation for your relationship, it gets things going. So don’t just have a dinner instead have flirtatious dinner. The minute you two stop flirting is the minute your relationship got boring and doomed. So, be a flirt, have a nice banter in the morning, on the phone/social media and before going to bed. This way he will always be thinking about you just don’t go overboard and never forget to give him some space if he needs it.
Share a Secret
After you two have been dating for a while there will come a time when you two may start sharing intimate details about your past. These secrets and private talks are what make relationships strong, so never betray his trust. Sharing a secret develops an emotional connection between two of you which makes it all the more better for your relationship. Just never out him in front of his friends because that will cause some serious trust issues, so sharing a secret comes with its own faults and benefits.
Tease a Little
Nothing makes a guy more addicted to you then teasing. This puts the guy in his place if he has been acting out and if not then it makes him want you even more. Teasing gets an arousal out of him and shows you how much addicted he is to you already. The three most efficient ways to tease him are as follows.
Seduction
If you guy likes lingerie then you know what I mean. Buying lingerie and making him work for it is one way of teasing using seduction and make him addicted to you in bed. Another way is to be a bit less obvious like if you know that he has a thing for your legs then wearing a skirt and exposing your legs in a public place would get him going. Remember when you are using seduction as teasing then you have to be ready to put it out because he will be expecting and if he is you boyfriend then not giving him what he desires may ruin it.
Ignorance
You know the old gambit of ignoring mentioning of someone’s birthday when actually you are planning a surprise party for them, this is something like that. Ignore your guy for a while and see him working more and more for your attention. This shows you how much he needs you and ignorance is fun if you don’t overdo it. So use it but don’t over use it because then the guy may get demotivated.
Jealousy
Jealousy is another tool you can use to make him jealous. When a guy sees you flirting with one of his friend then he is bound to get jealous. It will show when he starts doing nice things for you but he may even get a bit irritated to see you flirting with another guy. But all this shows how much he cares about you. Remember a little bit of jealousy is good for you, it’s even required for a good relationship but a lot of it may cause trouble. So keep it under control which can be done by showing your love for this guy and making him feel secure.
Be Spontaneous
One of the reasons why relationship gets boring is because it lacks spontaneity. Couple gets so much comfortable in their routine that they forget to have fun. So bring back some of your spontaneous self and see how it gets him all excited. Being spontaneous can be anything small like trying a new desert when on a date to having spontaneous sex in your car. Just remember not to do something illegal or damaging when going for spontaneity.
Have a Conversation
People this day are so obsessed with what’s going online that they forget to have a proper conversation. So, it’s important to have a nice lively conversation every once in a while beside the banter and playful flirting. Well, I would actually encourage involving banter in a conversation if you feel like it. But other things aside having a girlfriend gives him an opportunity to share what happens in his day and how he feels about it. This is where you let him speak without any judgments. This way you at least know what is going on with him and this is also place where you can share what you been up to. Having someone to talk to if need be is what relationship is all about.
Be Independent
Be independent mean be your own person. Just because you are dating a guy now doesn’t necessarily means that you have to change your priorities completely for him. One of the things he may have liked about you is that you are an independent woman so never trade that up for anything. That being said, there is a difference between being an independent woman and being a stubborn one. Just remember that it’s okay to ask him for help if you need it but not okay to do anything without him. Like needing help to open a tight pickle jar is fine but needing him to spoon feed you is not.
Show Support
Last and one of the most important things you can offer guy in a relationship is your support. Just like you need support, he needs it too. Be the rock in his life and always show him the positive side of the world because everything is better if you just look at it from a different perspective. But know the difference between being supportive and getting abused.
Well, now that you know how to make a man addicted to you, what are you waiting for? Remember its fun being in a relationship which is full of surprises and not the bad kind. Do something nice for him once in a while and you would see how much he appreciates you. So if you are in a relationship which has become sort of a routine, then I think it’s time to spice it up a little. Don’t just wait around for him to get started instead be the first one to start using the tips given above and you will see the changes in your relationship soon enough.