If you are still figuring out how to get a girls phone number then try these tips. Confidence and having the ability to make a girl laugh can boost your chances.
Just in case you have seen a girl somewhere in the college campus, party, club or anywhere on the street who you find to be very attractive. You want to know more about her and this can be done if you approach her and at the end get her mobile number. In this situation the first thing you should have is the self confidence, if you have it then you there are chances of getting her number. Never let the fear of being rejected set in your mind, if she rejects than it is her bad luck of not giving you a chance, think in this way.
To learn how to get a girls phone number you need to first develop the confidence and have the plan that what you will be talking to her. With an addition of humor in an interesting conversation and by a little luck there you are most probably get her number. But, in case she rejects giving you her number than without feeling annoyed complete your conversation saying, ”it was nice talking with you” and leave. Learn the simple tricks for approaching an unknown girl and finally get her number. No expert can give you 100% guaranteed tips, it just increases the passing percentage of success.
Relax yourself and get rid of nervousness.
The first thing you need to do is to get rid of the anxiety and calm yourself fast or you can miss the opportunity. If this is your first time then your heart will pump at double speed, but I can assure you that it is not that difficult. At the end what will happen, either she will give her number or not. So what’s the fear of approaching, if she reject giving her number it is fine. There are so many girls that are waiting for a loving guy like you.
The first few time may be tough, but after 3-4 times everything will be normal. Just keep in mind that if you are nervous then she is going to notice that. The girl may wonder that why you are so nervous when talking to her and let me tell you that girls like confident guys. So the first step for approaching a girl and getting her mobile number begins with relaxing yourself and building some inner confidence.
Now plan the conversation
Well after reading this you won’t need to plan anything, but you need to remember the plan. Planning means how to start with the conversation, how to keep it up to the interest of the girl and finally the trick to get her number. Having a plan in advance will keep you calm and at no time will go out of words in your conversation.
Its time to approach the girl
After you have cooled and ready with the plan, now its time to make any eye contact with the girl. Stand in the direction where the girl is looking and as soon as she looks at you immediately give a smile and then look away. This will be the first hint you are planting in the girl. You just need to hope that the girl should be single, else these tricks may not work on her. After the smile, now its time to walk to her and introduce yourself with a “hi”. Now you need to start the conversation according to the surrounding.
Suppose she is near a clothing section of a store, take two shirts or t-shirt and ask her opinion what will suit you. If she is near the book section, ask her about books and there are so many things in a store to be asked about. If she is on the street you can ask her directions to some place. Suppose you are at a party or bar, ask her opinion about some drink. Girls really like when anyone asks them about their opinions on a particular thing.
Pickup line to get her number
These are great starter methods to initiate the conversation and now you have to move to a little bolder task. If you go and start with a pickup line than the chances of getting her number is considerably reduced. As all girls are unique, pickup lines may work on some, but a majority of girls in many interviews and surveys have asked boys to refrain from using pickup lines. If your pickup line is original then maybe it can work, but if she has already heard this line somewhere then it can be a disaster for you. Pickup lines are great, but use it in between a conversation. You can tell the girl that looking at her you got a really good pickup line or something like that.
Make the conversation interesting
After the initial introduction, now it is the time to play some tricks to impress her. Here are a few ways by which you can keep the girls fully interested talking to you.
- Start with a simple question about her, like what she is doing and about her passion. Avoid making her feel that you are interviewing her. Simply say “So what are you currently doing? Let me guess are you an actress or model, right”. She will definitely smile and give you the correct answer and then ask about her interests.
- Note one thing, don’t be the only one who is talking all the time. Keep a balance and let her also talk. Just don’t pressure her with too many questions. When she is talking remember to pay complete attention. Look in her eyes, smile and nod your head and make her feel that you are actively listening to her.
- Casually in the talk you can compliment about her smile. You can say that ”you should always keep that smile on, it makes your face look beautiful. Or simply say that you have an attractive smile”.
Final stage of getting her mobile number
- You can ask her for a mobile and call your mobile. Tell her this is the number of a girl name xyz (whatever her name is) who has a very attractive smile. Later someday you can text her and make plans for hanging out.
- This is also a good trick to get her number. Instead of asking her simple say “How can we stay in touch or contact each other, lets exchange numbers”. If you were able to hold her interest and make her feel relaxed in the conversation then the chances of rejection is minimum. Almost any girl will give you her number.
These are the best tricks that I hope has taught you everything on how to get a girls phone number. Just stay confident while playing these tricks and never think negatively that she will not give her number to you and all kind of stuff. If you overcome the fear of conversation with an unknown girl you will get the girls number, this is how this stuff works.
If she does not want to share her number
After conversation if she rejects the idea of giving her number then just insist ones that maybe we could go for a movie or coffee. If she stands firm on her decision then respect her decision and move away. Even after rejection stay near to her where she could see you, but don’t look at her. It may happen that the girl was confused and now she has decided to share her number. If she does not approach you in 5 minutes then try another girl.
In the end you need to be confident, have the perfect body language, approach her positively and keep your conversation fun. This will easily help you get any girl’s number. To learn these qualities you can read this advanced dating guide for men. In this guide you will find everything from developing confidence to building attraction.