Find the best way to attract a woman older than you and make her fall in love. These tips will help you charm women in their 30’s or 40’s with your words.
While it’s common for people to be attracted to and fall in love with someone of their age group, but it’s also not unheard of couple with wide age difference. It’s all good as long as both partners are comfortable with each other and the younger one is mature enough to handle the situation. Sometimes when a younger guy is attracted to a woman older than him, he starts acting weird around her. If this is something you are facing as well than there is a lot you need to learn right now
You see the problem is not being attracted to a woman older than you; the problem is many guys don’t know how to attract a woman older than them. They start feeling sort of inadequate in themselves to a point that they start acting weird around her. But the truth is it’s quite possible to make a woman older than you fall in love as long as you are willing to do whatever is necessary.
Personality Tips to Attract Women
It may be true that you have a better physique than your old counterparts, but this alone may not be enough to attract an older woman. A woman who is older than you probably has seen a lot of guys like and quite possible dated some of them as well. So, now when she is more mature, she won’t make the same mistake again. Hence, better physique alone won’t make her interested in you.
Don’t get me wrong having a nice physique will make it easier to get her attention but not enough to make you interesting. This is where your personality comes in. A proper physique to get her attention coupled with an awesome personality makes you the complete package. Let’s see some of the personality traits you need to attract a woman older than you in her 30’s or 40’s.
Show Confidence
Confident is one of those things which you have to fake it till you make it. If you are having problems with this then one of the best things you could do is show up because showing up is half the battle. And if you show up properly dressed with clean shave and combed hair then you look more appealing and that’s a great boost for your confidence. Then you just take it from there. Lastly, confidence is just showing that you are comfortable in your own skin. So, stop fidgeting and take the next step because that would naturally exhume confidence even if you are not.
Common Interests
One of the problems faced when trying to talk to older woman is there are no common things to talk about. The things you talk about are for her may not interest her and the things she would like to talk might be a bit out of your league. The lack of common interest is what makes your conversations dull and kills the attraction between the two of you.
When faced with such difficulty then the solution is just as simple; you need to have some common interest. To achieve that first you need to know what are her likes and dislikes are and that can be a nice conversation as well. Next are talking about books, music, movies and many more topics which are general in terms but are great conversation starters till you get to know her better. And the bit tricky but important one is going for activities she is in. I know this might come off as stalking but not if you show genuine interest in what the activity is even if it is something out of your comfort zone. This way you get her attention as well as get to know her better.
Get Some Experience
We all have heard the quotes like “With age comes Wisdom”. This is to say that you learn from your mistake and the next time you are well equipped to handle similar situations. Now you don’t have time on your side but you certainly can have some experience. The best ways to get some experience is to step out of your comfort zone and try something new. Travel, it doesn’t matter where go somewhere you have never been before and that does not mean to the ladies room. Enroll in different activities just to meet people from different walks of life. Volunteer at places where you can do some good. And even date some girls you normally won’t just to learn some things about women.
Be Mature
Maturity is something that comes with experience and it shows even when you are talking to a waiter or to her. It may be a bit tough but you have to do your best to impress the woman you like. Part of maturity is to control your feelings. You don’t let the woman see your emotions like anger or sad. This is what’s called throwing a tantrum and that in no way is acting like a mature person. Secondly, a mature person doesn’t complain about stuff, he just fixes it and if he can’t then he learns to let go. Lastly, you have to be polite to everyone around you as this is a genuine sign of being a mature person.
Get Her Attention
If you have done all the things above then you definitely have her attention but if not then all there is left is to gather up the courage and ask her out. This way you show your confidence, you have plenty to talk about and either way you get to show your maturity. But this shouldn’t be something that comes out of the blue. She should be aware of your intentions beforehand perhaps when you two were talking about common interest. This way you could start with common topics mixed with light flirting and then ask her out.
Dating tips to attract older women
Just getting a date with her is not our goal, the goal is to get her attention and to make her attracted towards you. So, here are some dating tips that can help you get there.
Keep things light
This is one common mistake young guy make when dating woman older than them, they try to act more mature then the woman. Young guys in order to impress older woman try talking more deep stuff during the dating period. I mean, don’t you know this time is to have fun and not for serious conversations. This is dating time, you take her out, have a nice laugh and then later you go for deep conversations. It’s one of the reasons why she is interested in dating you in the first place as she doesn’t have to worry about all your baggage as well.
Age Advantage
Enough with the disadvantages of being younger than her, now let’s use it to our advantage. You are young and the world is still waiting for you. Stops with the “I haven’t” and start with the “I will”. Dating a younger guy who is filled with more enthusiasm and energy is much more fun than dating his old counterpart. A young guy is a lot better in lots of places like on the dance floor and “some other places”.
Be Independent
When you are trying to attract a woman older than you then you have to keep in mind that she may have a lot going on apart from you. This is to say that you need to give her some space because if you don’t you appear to be clingy and too needy which does not go well for attraction. And secondly, you have your own life to take care of your friends and stuff. This is something that you have to do just to keep her interested and it’s the best thing you can do at this stage.
Treat Her Nicely
A woman older than you may expect some immaturity from you, but you don’t have to give her that opportunity. Treating her nicely is one of the ways of showing her how mature you are and how much you appreciate her. This will help you attract a woman older then you and make her fall in love. I know this may come as a surprise to you but woman still likes to go on a date with gentleman than an immature tantrum throwing boy.
Do all the things a gentleman would do which includes showing up on time perhaps a bit early, dressed properly with combed hair and clipped nails, opening doors for her to go in first and much more. Lastly, just treat her nicely including taking her to dates in a proper restaurants and not fatty joints like burger king and stuff. All these things will impress and attract a woman older than you.
Passionate Conversations
This is one of the very attractive things a couple can have, passionate conversations. Every woman likes a guy who knows his stuff and is passionate about them and if the things interest her as well then you two may have a nice conversation about it. On the other hand if you read something that you know is of interest to her then talking about it can work as well. Talking about travel adventures always pumps up the energy in the room. All you have to do is talk about something you both like with a nice witty banter involved in it.
Caution: Avoid topics which bring up your age difference. I am not saying to ignore your age gap just suggesting not emphasizing it as much.
Follow all these tips to attract a woman older than you, but don’t ever forget who you really are. You don’t have to change what you really feel but how you express it. But being your true self is just as important as being a mature in this relationship and don’t you ever forget that.